Having a roommate can be fun, but it can also be hard work finding the right match for your personality.  However, do not be discouraged, there are things that you can do to help get the right person.

When preparing for a roommate, you should begin by reflecting on your own needs and desires.  Although this is an obvious first step, you should write down your pet peeves and number them in order of tolerance.  Pet peeves that you can tolerate more than others should be at the bottom of the list.  Ideas for your list are:

• Sleeping habits
• Eating habits
• Cleanliness habits
• Drinking, smoking, noise levels
• Overnight guests

With your list in hand, it is time to create your interview question list.  Ten to 15 questions may be enough, but create more just in case some of the questions may not be relevant to a potential roommate.  Using your list, create questions that address your pet peeves.  Other questions that you can include are:

• Have you ever had roommates?  How did you get along with them? 
• Do you smoke, drink, or use any drugs?
• What do you like to do for fun?  Any hobbies?
• How often do you like to party?  Do you plan to have parties at our home? How frequently?
• What, if any, are your pet peeves?
• Do you prefer a quiet environment?  How much noise can you tolerate?
• Do you prefer loud music?
• Do you watch a lot of television?
• When do you wake up?  What time do you go to sleep?  Do you prefer a quiet environment when sleeping?  Does it need to be dark?
• Do you have a pet?  Are you planning to get a pet?  If so, what kind?
• Do you have any medical conditions I should be aware of? Any allergies?
• Are you planning to have overnight guests?  How often do you plan to have visitors?
• Do you consider yourself clean, messy, or somewhere in between?
• Are you willing to share responsibility for cleaning, cooking, and buying groceries?
• If upset at your roommate, how do you express your feelings?  How can I tell when you want to be left alone?
• Is there anything else I should know about you?

Now you are ready to find a roommate!  However, before using web sites like Rumates.com, you should check with family and friends for roommate recommendations.  Often, they may know a “friend of a friend” who is searching for a place.

When you have found several potential roommates, rely on your “gut instincts” to filter your choices.  Exchange emails, and then phone calls, before deciding to meet anyone in person.  If possible, have a close friend or family member accompany you and ask questions during the interview.

After you have narrowed down your choice, consider conducting a background check.  Numerous sites offer this service.  Some to consider are www.urgentdetective.com and http://www.intelius.com.  Both are paid services that could supply you with valuable information.  

One of the last steps is to obtain a roommate agreement contract for you and your new roommate.  List your expectations and any verbal agreements that were discussed.

And, finally, have fun. 

The Rumates Team